tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post8806830972352267810..comments2023-08-20T11:23:22.637+05:30Comments on Colors: a drama called lifeAnil Sawanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-81734115945371141502009-07-17T11:23:38.348+05:302009-07-17T11:23:38.348+05:30Who are Keerthy and Sam?Who are Keerthy and Sam?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-47916397894353276402008-10-17T18:23:00.000+05:302008-10-17T18:23:00.000+05:30@athi : i wish sam learn something from all this. ...@athi : i wish sam learn something from all this. Inspiring words :-)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-70054478817150657362008-10-17T18:22:00.000+05:302008-10-17T18:22:00.000+05:30@david: nice to see you here sir. I am honored by ...@david: nice to see you here sir. I am honored by your visit.Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-11438329568555945632008-10-17T13:15:00.000+05:302008-10-17T13:15:00.000+05:30Loved d two versions of d plot. :)Keerthi shud hav...Loved d two versions of d plot. :)<BR/>Keerthi shud have never left her life for her love. Often most gals feel affection towards one person should forcefully block all other emotions , bt dats not true. You often end up feeling dejected and alone. Nobody can have a life centered around another person, at least not if u have a choice.Bt yes, she is definitely to an extent responsible for Sam's misery, cos deep inside obviously she would have known that she can't be kept in a cage like that, and should have let go then itself. On the other hand its also possible that she wanted to give him a chance to understand her feelings and space, maybe she thought d relationship ws worth dat effort. Sam should hav realised dat she ws givin up too much for him and shoul have let her free accordingly. U cant love and suffocate a person at d same time, it's just not fair. Bt i ges evryone learns frm deir own mistakes, I'm sure dey both learnt sumtin frm deirs n in future twil do both of dem good. Keerti has moved on and Sam wil too. Evrytin happens for a reason.athihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10894748673333657169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-1626353136029237802008-10-17T04:16:00.000+05:302008-10-17T04:16:00.000+05:30Hello, Sawan!Yes my friend. My work is for a good ...Hello, Sawan!<BR/>Yes my friend. My work is for a good cause. It is against the abuse of children.<BR/>Have a nice weekend.<BR/><BR/>David Santos - Portugaldavid santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08976825493652779441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-67613480751145023462008-10-16T15:45:00.000+05:302008-10-16T15:45:00.000+05:30@ appy : Vandy, i am happy u commented! guez what,...@ appy : Vandy, i am happy u commented! guez what, thats exactly what i told sam and keerthy :-) and thnx for the good words.. Neil is honored:)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-53387601543584458402008-10-16T15:13:00.000+05:302008-10-16T15:13:00.000+05:30vins.. dnt worry, ur blog roll is getting updated....vins.. dnt worry, ur blog roll is getting updated.. :-)<BR/><BR/>there is a reason why keerthy and sam gave neil two versions. The reason is that keerthy told him a story which she believed or which she thought had happened. same with sam. the idea is that two of them looked at things at two different ways which is a fair play. if i do something, i obviously would think that its right and i would have my own justifications for that. but my rights may not be true for u or a third person! thats called conflict of interests! <BR/>about sacrifice, you may look at my comment to priya. <BR/>you said keerthy shouldnt have let sam drink. right. but tell me this : two years is lot of time. an extrovert of 23 years becomes an introvert for 2 years. she chose to close the very doors which connects her to this world! She chose to let go her interests, her career, her smile - if that could be termed as sacrifice, i would say that very sacrifice ruined their relationship. love is only a word which tries to explain varied emotions. its highly contextual. imagine u having a boy friend and he says " i love you ". Now imagine we having a conversation and i say " I love you". Now your boy friend and I uttered the same words to the same person, but you could differentiate the emotions involved. So what is love more than a mere word? Its how you interpret the word that matters! I seriously dont believe there are two types of love - pure and impure! What is an impure love? lust, infatuation?? maybe there is another word to express it!<BR/><BR/>Of course the story is very comon. The saddest part is that even then people are reluctant to find out the very foundation of this problem. If you want to welcome a girl into your life, welcome her for what she is and not for what you could make her! marriage is an union of two ideas. There should be negotiations and not sacrifices.<BR/>ah man, does my comment look a lil bigger.? its an interesting topic, i could debate for hours :-)<BR/><BR/>peace..Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-55956599639042869192008-10-16T14:55:00.001+05:302008-10-16T14:55:00.001+05:30I thought i would also pour in my expert comments....I thought i would also pour in my expert comments.I think both of ur friends should know that getting into a relationship is very easy and maintaining it is the difficult task.Another advice for <BR/>Sam: this dude needs to come to reality and ask him to stop watching hindi movies.where hero start drinking to find solace.He needs to have trust and give space.to explain take example of his parents.If his parents ask him to stop going out or movong around and only wait for them to talk or share .how would he feel.May be he can think about the feeling what she went thru and in long distance relationship there r 2 imp thingsa).trust & communication<BR/><BR/>Kirti:She took a gud decision as being in same relationshil wouldn't fetch anything in long term.In future it will be like a compromise and we all have only one life to enjoy.It must very relaly hard the stress and lonely feeling she went thru.<BR/><BR/>Neil: U did a gr8 job by trying ur best as friends are there to help us in these kin of situation and not run away or make distance when it becomes bad<BR/>:DAppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421089295314291872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-7450844811259238402008-10-16T14:55:00.000+05:302008-10-16T14:55:00.000+05:30@ priya: thnx for your words. ive seen that gils w...@ priya: thnx for your words. ive seen that gils when get into a relationship changes drastically. agree it or not, the level of their patience get boosted up to an unknown level. They would be calm when they should shout. They would let go all of their interests for the benefit of the relationship. Salute to all the girls for this. But as every good thing has a side effect, guys usually chooses to turn a blind eye towards this quality of girls. They think or chooses to think that this silence of girls is their weakness! This eventually makes things worse and they start to take the girl for granted. You and me are after all humans. A girl is a human. Her mind is like a volcano. The more it is silent, the more powerful the eruption would be. Even the girl wouldnt have control on it beyond a limit. For a relationship to go well - i guez, there should be no sacrifices. The very term sacrifice would mean that u are letting go of some thing which u desire. If you have the feel then at one point of time you tend to compare the losses. If I am happy with my girl where does the term sacrifice stand in my life? Its all about how u and me see things.. its all about stability of our minds.. its all about love :-)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-76222049533809791552008-10-16T14:47:00.000+05:302008-10-16T14:47:00.000+05:30@ david: thnx for visiting. good day!@ david: thnx for visiting. good day!Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-37247864887360443622008-10-16T14:46:00.000+05:302008-10-16T14:46:00.000+05:30@ divz: thats what every comon friend said! "i don...@ divz: thats what every comon friend said! <BR/><BR/>"i dont see any point in sam not liking neil " - u dont know how u behave when emotions overcome your thoughts :-)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-37613425371629217602008-10-16T13:10:00.000+05:302008-10-16T13:10:00.000+05:30hey sawan..my bloglist didnt update this post feed...hey sawan..my bloglist didnt update this post feed..it still shows TV ho tho BIG TV ho!!<BR/><BR/>as neil, i would not back either of them since they have given me 2 different versions whereas the truth would be one n also the truth which they both do not want to c... LOVE is the purest n most powerful emotion that makes humans divine...probably in their younger days, they didnt realise that its abt giving, its abt sacrifice...the arguements should have died with times..but it didnt since ego was involved!! Keerthi shouldnt have left Sam to drink n kill all his desires..i believe keerthi wont be happy after doing this to him..Keerthi n Sam should have sat n talked in person n then decided if they r really ready to accept the other without changes,without expectations other than pure love, then thats true love n a happy life surely !!<BR/><BR/>BTW, this story is a very common one...some of the couples after all the years of fighting n growing up simultaneously, realised for themselves that they werent in love ever n so mutually broke off...wishing luck to each other!<BR/>but some of them still never realised, they r busy fighting n blaming the other for 'loving less' n for their career mistakes n sometimes even for the domestic issues at home!! <BR/><BR/>well, most of us fall in love during junior college, but only later we realise whether we truely love our partners or just using them as 'ego boosters'..if u ever find urself in such a situation, be honest n let the other know...<BR/>there will be some pain initially for the true lover but GOD will help them!!<BR/>but never play games in love, NEVERvinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002501707107783193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-3963628596783837612008-10-16T05:09:00.000+05:302008-10-16T05:09:00.000+05:30the points u used on behalf of neil.. I cumpletely...the points u used on behalf of neil.. I cumpletely agree to them.. but I wud like to add tat in a relationship I think sumtymes keerthy shud also sacrifice her interests..this applies to sam too<BR/><BR/>If this wud hav happened then the relationship wudn't hav broken<BR/><BR/>niice post..Priya Joycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09412426062076926939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-51691071092922964942008-10-16T04:47:00.000+05:302008-10-16T04:47:00.000+05:30Great work!Have a nice day.Great work!<BR/>Have a nice day.david santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08976825493652779441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-23455792260308800092008-10-16T00:35:00.001+05:302008-10-16T00:35:00.001+05:30i dont see*i dont see*lukkydivzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03483312903585782688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-55152477516265764612008-10-16T00:35:00.000+05:302008-10-16T00:35:00.000+05:30all i can say is- definitely they were not in love...all i can say is- definitely they were not in love!<BR/><BR/>i dont any point in sam not liking neil :Olukkydivzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03483312903585782688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-44943519696911564112008-10-15T17:43:00.000+05:302008-10-15T17:43:00.000+05:30preetz : i may pass ur comment to them :-)"In...preetz : i may pass ur comment to them :-)<BR/><BR/>"In love, there is only give and no take" - i disagree => men GIVE their purse and women TAKE the remote! ;-)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2234831767530581219.post-13131586584181487092008-10-15T16:00:00.000+05:302008-10-15T16:00:00.000+05:30My reaction as Niel same as yours, but I would mai...My reaction as <BR/>Niel same as yours, but I would maintain a safe distance between both of them. Sam and keerthi. Dont ask me why :) Its just a feeling.<BR/><BR/>Advice to<BR/>Sam : hey you, learn to trust her more and chuck out excessive alcohol. its not a solution to anything:)<BR/><BR/>Keerthi : choose your partner twice before entering a committed relationship. Because once you enter, there should be no turning back. <BR/><BR/>Sam and Keerthi were not in love. It was an illusion that they really loved each other. In love, there is only give and no take. there are no rules or expectations.Preetihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18236199322906478142noreply@blogger.com